Thursday, 17 May 2012

Leaving L'Aigle


The last weekend of the school holidays I spent hanging out with my friends as much as possible.  Saturday we had dinner at a friend’s place and then I stayed the night there.  The next day after much chilling out (pain-au-chocolat for breakfast, coffee etc) we decided to brave the weather and go out for a run – a habit we had started.  The weather I might add that week had been atrocious with moments of sun, then cold, forceful showers filled with hail.  So we headed out for a run but before we got out of the car it poured down, so we went for a drive and then it cleared so we stopped in this gorgeous little village and went for a run in the countryside, which was beautiful at the time with its bright yellow fields of rape seed in bloom.  On our way home we passed a church that dates from the 12 century, so my friend pulled over his car and we had fun exploring the surroundings of the church.  It just blows my mind that in the middle of rural Normandy there are buildings that are hundreds of years older than my country and we would have driven past it and not even appreciated it.

This particular Sunday was the first round of the elections for the new French president so it was back to L’Aigle to vote.  My friend kindly and willingly, because he loves showing off this stuff to me, let me come with him and I was able to see how the system works, which is a bit different to NZ.  They go in and all the candidates names are printed out on bits of paper and you pick up either all of the bits of paper, if you want your vote to be secret, or just the paper of the person for whom you will vote.  Then you pick up an official blue envelope and you go to the booth, put in the paper of who you are voting for, go to the box, put the envelope in the box (keep the other bits of paper), sign your name off and leave.  I now have my own copy of the bits of paper and an envelope thanks to my friend – but funnily enough, one of the names is missing! Which one...?  Then it was off to another of our friend’s house to watch the results being announced on TV.

The last week of school went by quickly (as has this whole time!), I did pick up swimming in the last week and have discovered a new fantastic form of exercise, we also made the most of the sauna and the water slide – lots of fun!

A lot of socialising and late nights in the last week, making the most of last few moments left with my friends.  The last weekend was spent on the coast at Gouville. Where one of my friends had booked a gite for the weekend (it was a long weekend) for her 30th birthday party.  It was a great night with a lot of laughs as someone had bought dress-up clothes and we proceeded to pick’n’mix and share the outfits – mostly wigs, while taking photos.  Very hilarious.  There was lots of dancing until the very small hours of the morning.  After that, even though it was a long weekend, most people headed home Sunday afternoon (some people did have work Monday).  I got a ride back with my friend and we ended up going past his parent’s place on the way.  After the usual yummy four course meal they seem to put on whenever I am there, we were rather too tired for another 3 hours of driving back to Mortagne so we stayed the night.  Monday we spent most of the day meandering back visiting little villages and Caen.  We also went past Coutances to see its famous cathedral and there happened to me a whole lot of priests outside in gowns for some sort of procession and we found out that there had been a ceremony to beatify someone – the step before they become a Saint.  There is so much Catholicism here, it’s very interesting for me to try and get me head around.

Back to Mortagne and the next day was May 1, the equivalent of Labour Day.  My friend and I were just about to head out for another run when he got a call from another friend saying he was off to take part in the Worker’s Parade in Alencon, so off we went.  It was mostly unionists and lefties (especially active with the upcoming second round of presidential elections) and quite an interesting experience (another uniquely French one).  My other friend is an art teacher and does photography and is currently into street photography, so we had fun taking photos. Here’s a link of what he does


The black flag of anarchy - awesome!

Then it was my last day, I spent it running around doing all my errands and then had a ‘last supper’ with my French besties who have just been so kind, loving, accepting and generous.  I said a very hard good-bye to my running buddy (we had hung out a lot!!) and then stayed the night at another friend’s.  The next morning she dropped me off at the train station and it was one of the most difficult things ever saying good-bye.  We just sobbed and I waved goodbye through the train window and she stood on the platform and waved back and we cried and cried and cried.  It was awful.  It’s so crazy to believe that this part of my life is over and that I don’t live in L’Aigle anymore (that reality hit me when I had to fill in a form and had to put my NZ address instead of my French one) and that I won’t be living there again doing all my normal daily life stuff with these guys, zumba, running, Corto (the local bar), Chez Irene, the pool, my op-shop where I volunteered, LeClerc, Lycee Napolean, speaking French, being immersed in French, learning stuff all the time (about architecture, philosophy, art, language etc etc), the food ...

I just have to look at it as a chapter in my life that has now come to an end, but it was amazing and full of so many wonderful memories, and now is a new chapter.  I have no idea what is in store in the next chapter, it’s still to be written...

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